{"id":1285,"date":"2020-12-14T20:58:20","date_gmt":"2020-12-14T19:58:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pdulski.com\/?p=1285"},"modified":"2021-01-01T18:35:34","modified_gmt":"2021-01-01T17:35:34","slug":"zmagania-adamaiv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pdulski.com\/en\/zmagania-adamaiv\/","title":{"rendered":"Zmagania Adama[IV]"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1285\" class=\"elementor elementor-1285\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ed9c0b5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ed9c0b5\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-00c36db\" data-id=\"00c36db\" 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elementor-element-e5d1a42 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e5d1a42\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Zdobywaj\u0105c dojrza\u0142o\u015b\u0107<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-f4aba95 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f4aba95\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b7ea90b\" data-id=\"b7ea90b\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap 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src=\"https:\/\/pdulski.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/PFT16-Adams-hardships-How-to-flower-into-manhood.m4a?_=1\" \/><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/pdulski.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/PFT16-Adams-hardships-How-to-flower-into-manhood.m4a?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/pdulski.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/PFT16-Adams-hardships-How-to-flower-into-manhood.m4a\">https:\/\/pdulski.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/PFT16-Adams-hardships-How-to-flower-into-manhood.m4a<\/a><\/audio>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-79cec78 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"79cec78\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-563a599\" data-id=\"563a599\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a51f551 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a51f551\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h5>Rozwi\u0144my dzisiaj pierwszy punkt poruszony w blogu zatytu\u0142owanym Ch\u0142opiec o zmierzaniu do przemiany z ch\u0142opca w m\u0119\u017cczyzn\u0119. Dotyczy on zdefiniowania swojej dojrza\u0142o\u015bci emocjonalnej.<\/h5>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-14b8b9c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"14b8b9c\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a6d7f02\" data-id=\"a6d7f02\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-587199d elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"587199d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Niekt\u00f3rzy mog\u0105 zapyta\u0107: \u201cA czy ty jeste\u015b ju\u017c m\u0119\u017cczyzn\u0105? Czy wiesz, o czym w og\u00f3le piszesz?\u201d Ot\u00f3\u017c odpowied\u017a nie jest jednoznaczna, wi\u0119c: \u201cI tak, i nie\u201d. Nasze \u017cycie nie jest czarno-bia\u0142e ani zero-jedynkowe. Sk\u0142ada si\u0119 z mn\u00f3stwa odcieni. Nie ma te\u017c na \u015bwiecie cz\u0142owieka, kt\u00f3rego mo\u017cemy okre\u015bli\u0107 stu-procentowym m\u0119\u017cczyzn\u0105. Jedynym by\u0142 Pan Jezus, ale on by\u0142 doskona\u0142y. My to ju\u017c jednak inna bajka. W ka\u017cdym z nas \u017cyje Piotru\u015b Pan i ka\u017cdy z nas musi zmaga\u0107 si\u0119 z tkwi\u0105cym w sobie ch\u0142opcem. Dlatego w pewnych dziedzinach mo\u017cemy by\u0107 m\u0119\u017cczyznami, a w innych b\u0119dziemy jeszcze ch\u0142opcami. I to jest to, co chc\u0119 podkre\u015bli\u0107 \u2014 <strong>jeszcze<\/strong>. Na tym polega dojrza\u0142a postawa m\u0119\u017cczyzny \u2014 na zdefiniowaniu, w jakiej dziedzinie si\u0119 jest jeszcze ch\u0142opcem i jak\u0105 drog\u0119 musi si\u0119 przej\u015b\u0107 do zmiany w dojrza\u0142ego m\u0119\u017cczyzn\u0119. Kiedy przeszli\u015bmy ju\u017c w wi\u0119kszej mierze ten proces, pozosta\u0142e aspekty b\u0119dzie nam \u0142atwiej rozwija\u0107. Gorzej jest, gdy zaczynamy wszystko od pocz\u0105tku. Gdy jeste\u015bmy ch\u0142opcem w wi\u0119kszo\u015bci dziedzin naszego \u017cycia. Sk\u0105d mamy to wiedzie\u0107? Je\u015bli jeste\u015b ch\u0142opcem, nie rozumiesz, o czym ja tu w og\u00f3le pisz\u0119 i wydaje ci si\u0119 to zupe\u0142nie g\u0142upie, niepotrzebne \u2014 wr\u0119cz infantylne. Tymczasem tak wcale nie jest. Z kolei m\u0119\u017cczyzna, podejmie temat, b\u0119dzie chcia\u0142 si\u0119 zag\u0142\u0119bi\u0107 i ruszy\u0107 w podr\u00f3\u017c samego siebie, \u017ceby zobaczy\u0107, co tam jest. On si\u0119 tego nie boi. Dojrza\u0142o\u015b\u0107 jest gotowa na cierpienie, bo to, co zobaczymy w samym sobie wcale nie musi by\u0107 przyjemne. Mo\u017ce nas nawet przyt\u0142oczy\u0107. U\u015bwiadomienie sobie, \u017ce jeste\u015bmy dziecinni albo tch\u00f3rzliwi lub \u017ce zawodzili\u015bmy przez te lata, mo\u017ce by\u0107 bardzo przygn\u0119biaj\u0105ca. I znowu, je\u015bli jeste\u015b m\u0119\u017cczyzn\u0105, nie za\u0142amiesz si\u0119, ale sk\u0142oni ci\u0119 to do walki o samego siebie. <br \/>Jak wejrze\u0107 w g\u0142\u0105b samego siebie? Pierwszy krok to zadawa\u0107 sobie pytania i szczerze na nie odpowiada\u0107. Drugi to przygl\u0105da\u0107 si\u0119 samemu sobie w r\u00f3\u017cnych dziedzinach \u017cycia, swoim reakcjom i poddawa\u0107 je osobistej analizie. Dlaczego post\u0105pi\u0142em tak a nie inaczej? Czemu w danej sytuacji zareagowa\u0142em tak? <br \/>Najlepiej zacz\u0105\u0107 od zwyk\u0142ych codziennych spraw. Czy w \u017cyciu codziennym jestem samodzielny, np: Czy umiem zrobi\u0107 pranie? Czy jestem w stanie zrobi\u0107 sobie co\u015b do jedzenia? Czy umiem kontrolowa\u0107 bud\u017cet? Czy wiem, jakie mam op\u0142aty? To poziom zero, ale bardzo istotny, bo samodzielno\u015b\u0107 niesie za sob\u0105 odpowiedzialno\u015b\u0107, a ta z kolei jest wa\u017cna w innych dziedzinach \u017cycia takich jak kontakty mi\u0119dzyludzkie, praca zawodowa czy zwi\u0105zek. Teraz idziemy troch\u0119 dalej. Przygl\u0105damy si\u0119 sobie uwa\u017cniej. Wchodzimy na obszary emocji. Jaki jestem w kontaktach mi\u0119dzyludzkich: Czy umiem si\u0119 przyzna\u0107 do b\u0142\u0119du? Czy umiem powiedzie\u0107 przepraszam, prosz\u0119, dzi\u0119kuj\u0119? Ale te\u017c czy umiem powiedzie\u0107: \u2018Nie!\u2019? Czy umiem wyrazi\u0107 swoje zdanie, odezwa\u0107 si\u0119, gdy trzeba? <br \/>Zobacz, \u017ce to mog\u0105 si\u0119 wydawa\u0107 \u015bmieszne rzeczy, ale czy czasami na polu bitwy w\u0142a\u015bnie na nich nie polegamy? Zachowujemy si\u0119 jak ma\u0142e dzieci. M\u00f3wimy: \u201eTo jego wina, nie moja!\u201d Podchodzimy do czego\u015b tak, jakby nam si\u0119 nale\u017ca\u0142o albo milczymy, daj\u0105c innym je\u017adzi\u0107 po nas. Po czym wracamy do domu i wy\u017cywamy si\u0119 na naszych domownikach. M\u0119\u017cczyzna rozpoznaje te aspekty, rozumie swoje emocje, uczy si\u0119 je kontrolowa\u0107, roz\u0142adowywa\u0107 i rozwi\u0105zywa\u0107 sytuacje. <br \/>Id\u017amy dalej, co ze zwi\u0105zkiem i ojcostwem? Tu potrzeba najwi\u0119cej dojrza\u0142o\u015bci. Tu niezb\u0119dne s\u0105 szczero\u015b\u0107 i odwaga. To, o czym pisa\u0142em w pierwszym artykule \u2014 nago\u015b\u0107 w zwi\u0105zku. Prawda boli, ale daje te\u017c zrozumienie. Ilu z nas ze strachu przed byciem ch\u0142opcem po prostu zamkn\u0119\u0142a si\u0119 w samym sobie. Tkwi w milczeniu. Jest \u017cywa w\u015br\u00f3d swoich koleg\u00f3w z pracy \u2014 maczo \u2014 ten, kt\u00f3rego wszyscy podziwiaj\u0105. Ale to tylko wyobra\u017cenie jego samego, wykreowane przez niego samego. To po prostu hologram \u2014 widzialny, ale nie prawdziwy. Chojrak w\u015br\u00f3d kumpli, a w domu? Nieobecny, milcz\u0105cy. Ch\u0142opiec ucieka, gdy si\u0119 pojawia zagro\u017cenie. Tak robi wielu z nas, uciekamy, wycofujemy si\u0119. Niekt\u00f3rzy pozostawiaj\u0105 ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwa samym sobie. Rzucaj\u0105 si\u0119 w wir pracy, traktuj\u0105c dom jak hotel. Inni uderzaj\u0105 w hobby. Nigdy nie uchwytni. Nie s\u0105 w stanie sprosta\u0107 swojej roli \u2014 m\u0119\u017ca. Tak bardzo boj\u0105 si\u0119, \u017ce zawiod\u0105, \u017ce nie robi\u0105 nic, zawodz\u0105c. A czasami wystarczy tylko jedno \u2014 szczero\u015b\u0107. Zamiast ucieka\u0107, stan\u0105\u0107 nagim naprzeciw partnerki, obna\u017cy\u0107 swoje s\u0142abo\u015bci i po prostu powiedzie\u0107, czego si\u0119 boimy. O ile\u017c to jest lepsze! Niestety, trudne, bo wymaga dojrza\u0142o\u015bci. O ile\u017c \u0142atwiej jest spakowa\u0107 walizk\u0119 i powiedzie\u0107: \u017begnaj! Jednak to nigdy nie rozwi\u0105zuje sytuacji. P\u00f3\u017aniej nast\u0119puje kolejne \u017cegnaj i kolejne. Bo okazuje si\u0119, \u017ce problem nie jest w kim\u015b, lecz w nas. Tak, w nas samych, bo to my nie doro\u015bli\u015bmy do rozwi\u0105zywania problem\u00f3w. <br \/>A co z ojcostwem? Nie b\u0119d\u0119 si\u0119 du\u017co rozpisywa\u0142. Ch\u0142opiec jest zazdrosny. Traktuje syna jak rywala. Walczy o uczucia. Natomiast w m\u0119\u017cczy\u017anie nie ma odrobiny zazdro\u015bci, ale jest duma. Rozumie jak wa\u017cn\u0105 rol\u0119 ma do odegrania w kszta\u0142towaniu m\u0142odego cz\u0142owieka. Rozumie, \u017ce nie jest tylko przeka\u017anikiem \u017cycia, ale jego mentorem. <br \/>Zdefiniowali\u015bmy ju\u017c pewne aspekty swojej dojrza\u0142o\u015bci emocjonalnej. Zaczynamy wi\u0119c nad nimi prac\u0119. Czy jeste\u015bmy jednak pozostawieni sami sobie? Ale\u017c nie! Mo\u017cemy polega\u0107 na swoim mentorze. Kim on jest? 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