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MEDITATION ON...
Spring equinox. The changes around seasons of the year and changes in the weather have significant impact on our health and our mood. If you wonder what is going on with you in recent days, why you are so irritated and contentious, you may find some answers and practical advice in this article.
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MEDITATION ON...
Evanescence. This article covers the sensitive subject of death. Though it has been our enemy throughout thousands of years, we are taught to believe in the myth of immortality. Therefore people are frightened when thinking about death. What can help us to get out of this fear? How can a different attitude help us? Let’s see how to keep a balance when talking about this subject.
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ADAM'S HARDSHIPS [V]
Mentor. This article is the next part of the Adam's hardships [III]. A Boy: and develops the second point in our road to manhood maturity - You are not alone! It discusses the meaning and the role a mentor plays in the life of each one of us.
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Adam's Hardships[IV]
How to flower into manhood? Let’s develop the first point brought out in the previous article, a transformation from a boy to a man. This point refers to defining your own emotional maturity. Some may ask: “Are you already a man? Do you really know what you’re writing about?” Well, the answer is not clear, so[...]
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Adam's Hardships[III]
A boy. What is the difference between a man and a boy? A man falls down to rise up in his own strength. A boy though, falls down and needs someone to help him get up. A man cries, but will show courage eventually. A boy cries, but he’s helpless. A man comes up against problems, on the other hand, a boy turns around and refuses to face the problems. A man acknowledges he’s submitted to God, meanwhile, a boy gets hysterical[...]
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Meditation on...
Nobody's children. I’m not sure if you feel same way as I do, but sometimes I feel like the world went upside down. It’s often hard to define what’s normal and what’s not. And the time when I thought I had figured it out, I found out I hadn’t. Living in Africa changed my point of view a lot [...]
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Adam's Hardships[II]
Mama's Boy. Fear is the opposite of courage. It can be strongly disruptive to a man and his will to act. It suppresses his progress and is often a cause of interpersonal conflicts. Definitely, fear is a negative quality. On the home page of my website you can read: Fight your fear! But that’s just a slogan; some kind of simplification. In fact we can’t fight or defeat fear. It is a figment of imagination about something, based on something[…]
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Eve's wound [II]
The pursuit of independence. How would you describe today’s woman? I’d call her “a fighting woman”. Above all she fights for her independence, equality, and position. This fight is bloody, deprives of energy and joy, and creates fears for the future[...]
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Stop complaining...part IV
...Be assertive. I am sure you remember Mike. During one of our meetings, I talked with him about beating the routine. However, Mike has some other problems that he must face in his daily life[...].
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Meditation on...
...The Trolls. I do not have to spend my time convincing you that Norway is a beautiful country. It amazes every visitor. That happened to me as well. If you ever have chance to visit that country, you must check the highway no.63 Andalsnes to Valldal, and then the Geirangersfjord. I consider this as one of the most awesome places[...]
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Adam's Hardships...
The Pansy's cry. I might be boring, but I have to say it again: We must cure ourselves of stereotypes. One of them says: ‘Boys don’t cry.’ [...]
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Meditation on...
... the terrific. When I sit a few miles above the ground, the world seems to be completely different. All those problems that I face down there, big problems, hard problems, the ones that are unbearable… now they don’t matter. I can gain a totally different viewpoint there. Little houses, little streets where tiny cars move looking like Hotwheels. Piece of land, that I can [...]
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Stop complaining...part III
...appreciate! “I’m too nervous.” Marta sighed. “What makes you nervous?” I asked. “Everything!” she said, glaring at me as if to say: ‘Don’t be stupid.’ “Everything?” “Ugh. I arrive at the supermarket, there are no parking spaces, I do my shopping, people jostle, and I must stand in the queue for hours!” [...]
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Stop complaining...part II
... beat the routine! "I have everything. My own house, two cars, a loving wife, and a smart daughter, but still I feel empty inside," Daniel told me. "Why do you feel this way?" I asked. "No clue, basically, nothing makes me happy. It hard for me to get up in the morning, and when I finally do, then I'm not in the mood to do anything...
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Stop complaining...part I
... fight. Since some time I've been talking with Tony. He's a young man, 23 years old. Not so long ago he has married a woman of his life. Generally, Tony has everything. Still, he feels unhappy. Just as if his life is without meaning. "I work hard, and I have nothing out of it. We scrape by, I can't afford nothing [...]
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